The general advice about TV and children are that television isn’t doing any damage, but under the age of 2 in particular, it doesn’t do any good. I’m reading a lot about kids and the term “screen-time” has replaced the word television on most cases. However, it doesn’t seem to have changed the definition all that much. Watching something on a screen and playing something utilizing a screen are still clumped together and viewed as passive activities. This annoys me.
Hawk girl has excellent fine motor skills; due to some health concerns she sees a lot of health care professionals and the running theme is that she’s smart, friendly and have impressive fine motor skills. I think utilizing touch screen devices, playing with my 360 controller and typing on my keyboard(s) helps with that. It’s also a shared activity; a great opportunity for some premium bonding time.
We do lots of other things too; we play, both indoors and out, we go on interesting walks and trips, we climb and run and do all the stuff kids love to do, but we also use tech a lot and we game more than most.
Gaming isn’t watching TV, it’s a very different activity. It’s also rarely a solitary activity and once she’s old enough to enjoy motion sensor games, it won’t be a sedentary one either. Reading about kids and tech often makes me feel as if the experts are stuck in the early 80′s except that we now say “screen time” and acknowledge mobile devices exists as small TV’s.
The world is changing rapidly and the opportunities for knowledge, learning and exploration that technology brings into the average household is breathtaking. I love books, but I have a Kindle and Chris has a playbook he uses as an e-reader. Technology isn’t an either or, it’s a bonus and yes, like all things, there’s always room for abuse, but viewed and used in the right context, I love being a parent with all these aids to help me be a better one.








